Enemies of virginity
Virginity used to be regarded highly and venerated in many cultures. But today, many girls don’t think it matters as much. They treat it with utmost disdain and complete disregard as if it is a curse. Some even say it’s pure nonsense to go about keeping that thing. “Who has virginity helped?’ they query some times. Well, the question is: Why do girls do this? This article attempts to answer that question. Here are some of the hidden reasons:
1. Society Has Changed
In the past, virginity was the yardstick for judging girls. It was tied to their worth. Now, people believe a woman’s value isn’t based on her body or choices. Many girls see virginity as an old idea that doesn’t fit modern life nor can it fit. This is a blatant lie!
2. Empowerment and Freedom
Girls want to feel free to make choices about their own bodies. They don’t want others to tell them what they should or shouldn’t do. Talking down on virginity can feel like taking back control. This is the angle some of these girls now think. Wow! This is strikingly amazing!
3. Pressure to Fit In
Some girls feel pressured to seem “cool” or mature. They think that throwing away virginity makes them fit in better with friends or what they see on social media. To them, losing it shows how much of a mature girl they have grown. Interesting! Are you kidding me?
4. Fear of Judgment
Unfortunately, some girls lose their virginity earlier than they planned. They might talk down on it to avoid feeling judged or guilty. It’s their way of protecting themselves. In fact, some of the people who talk down on virginity have either lost theirs or they want to take away the ones their targets have. All those harmful and embarrassing words virgins hear from other boys and girls are from the devil. He wants to make them look like they are the worst fools on the earth. Yet, they are the wisest of all humans.
5. Misunderstanding the Idea
Many people don’t understand virginity. They think it’s just about sex. But virginity is also about personal values and choices. Some girls might reject the idea because they don’t fully get it. They don’t know that while they remain virgins, there are some deep levels of spiritual security and benefits they enjoy. Those who have not lost theirs can never enjoy that and it is a fact. One of such benefits is how potent the words of virgins can be. Most of the things they say usually come to pass if they mean it.
6. Influence from Media and Celebrities
Movies, music, and influencers often send a message: “It’s your life, do what makes you happy.” This can make some girls think virginity isn’t important anymore. When they see their models or idol talking down on it and praising doing the deed, they embrace it with all their hearts.
7. Envy
Many girls out there hate to hear the word virginity because they have lost theirs. The reality that has dawned on them is that they can never regain their it again in this life. This leaves them miserable, bitter and often in pain. For this reason, they do everything in their powers to make sure those who are still virgin lose theirs as well. This is one of dangers that goes with girls who foolishly disclose their virginity status to other girls.
Conclusion
Everyone has their own views on virginity. For some, it’s personal and meaningful. For others, it’s not. One thing we must take time to emphasize is that God was not stupid when He introduced that in the lives of men. He has deeper reasons for it.
People who rise to attack and condemn virginity are only victims of one wrong decision or the other. You should know that some of them who make a mess out of it are not humans. They know some of the monumental blessings and great fortune virginity keeps in store for those who still have theirs intact. And they are bent on making sure these virgins lose that priceless treasure they have.
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